Premarital Counseling
Marriage counseling to save a marriage seems like a no-brainer, but what about marriage counseling to protect a marriage? That's what premarital counseling really does. It gets the major issues out on the table and helps you see what you need to work on. It might tell you that you're not ready to get married, which although it sounds like a disasterous diagnosis, it can be a blessing in disguise. Postponing your wedding can help you have a stronger marriage and healthier life, if that's what you need. On the other hand, premarital counseling might help confirm that you are a great match, and alleviate some of those pre-wedding jitters and cold feet.
Many people get premarital counseling from their priest, minister, rabbi, or other religious leader. It may even be required by your ceremony location. But you can also get referrals from The American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy or their therapist locator.
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Nina, I try to tell folks this all the time. People spend thousands on a wedding but dont even consider pre-marital counseling. It really is worth while. Great article. Sincerely, John
Thanks for your wonderful insight, as with any form of life changing events we should always study and look for the right solutions and follow our hearts… and it is never to late to say “I am sorry” for anything! Healing takes time, but worth it when you can forgive others.
Both premarital counseling and marriage counseling are great place to start to open the lines of communication. And as we know, that the lack of communication is the number one reason, relationships begin to fail…
Thanks again,
Howard
I agree. Premarital counseling needs to be a preventative (as you say a “protective” approach) and a way for couples to build a strong relationship.