Jim writes: Our friends are renewing their vows (25 years) and the reception is going to be a fun party with karaoke. What is etiquette for a gift? Would a "group" gift be appropriate? We are all a little confused to what to do. Technically, gifts are not required for vow renewals. They aren't weddings, and the couple isn't setting up a new household. However, especially for a momentous occasion like a 25-year anniversary, giving a present is a thoughtful gesture. I'd put the emphasis on sentiment rather than monetary value. You might give a memory book or photo album, and pre-seed them with pictures of them you've taken, or special memories of them as a couple. Another thoughtful present would be a double picture frame, where they can put a photo of their original wedding day next to one of their vow renewal. For a group gift, consider sending them away for a romantic weekend, or another gift that allows them to spend quality time together. Do you have good ideas for vow renewal gifts? Share them by clicking the blue "comment" link below.