Once upon a time, a groom's only responsibility was to show up and have a ring. His mother, the bride's mother, and the bride took care of everything else. These days, with couples getting married at later ages, and most women working outside of the home, a groom needs to pull his share of the weight. Fortunately, grooms are doing so - there's even a great new book coming out soon called "The Engaged Groom" by Doug Gordon that is specifically advice for the groom. Tell us how involved your groom is with wedding planning in this poll.