Question: How long do I have to write thank-you notes? How will I get them done?
Answer: I often hear questions such as: "I feel overwhelmed by the task of writing so many thank-you notes! How long do I have? And do you have any tips on getting on top of them?" First, when you create your invitation list, put a copy of it in a notebook so that you can record what you were given, and then cross off the name when you’ve written a thank-you. Try to write the thank-yous as the gifts come in, so that you’re not writing too many at any one time, or forget exactly which crystal vase was the one the Johnsons gave you.
Remember that in a modern wedding, the groom is equally responsible for writing thank-yous. Perhaps each person can write thanks for presents received from their friends. Also, you don't have to write an essay to each person. Just write a simple thank-you with a sentance or two about when you plan to use the gift.
The proper etiquette is to send notes within two weeks for gifts received before the wedding, and within one month for gifts received after the wedding. But a late thank-you note is still better than no note at all.
