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Your Wedding Ceremony - Orders of Service, Vows, Readings and More

Looking for different wedding vow wordings? Need suggestions for readings and songs? Or perhaps you need to know what comes first in the wedding ceremony? Here's everything you need to know from processional to recessional.
  1. Wedding Vows (14)
  2. Wedding Readings (11)
  3. Gay and Lesbian Weddings (6)
  4. Wedding Ceremony Music (4)

Planning Your Wedding Ceremony - A Sample Wedding Ceremony and Order of Service

Many couples today are choosing to have a non-religious wedding ceremony, or be married by a friend or family member. Yet an important role of the officiant is to give you guidance in crafting your wedding ceremony, often following a predetermined format. If you are going the DIY route, here's advice on creating a memorable and personal...

Wedding Ceremony Checklist

A wedding ceremony checklist designed to help you keep track of all the things you'll need, including

Sample Secular Wedding Ceremony

If you're writing your own wedding ceremony, it can be hard to know where to begin. After all, there are a lot of resources for writing your vows, but relatively few available for writing your own wedding ceremony. This example is a particularly beautiful one which incorporates ritual and tradition. Feel free to adapt it to meet your needs and...

Wedding Ceremony Details: Community Vows of Support

The community vow of "speak now or forever hold your peace" is a traditional part of many wedding ceremonies. But if you can, rather than asking this question in the negative, I suggest asking your guests to help sustain your marriage and love for one another, with a community vow of support.

5 Ways to Make Your Guests a Meaningful Part of Your Wedding Ceremony

If you've chosen to get married in front of family and friends, rather than eloping, it's because their witnessing your nuptials is important to you. But how do you make them a meaningful part of your wedding ceremony? Here are several ideas:

Unity Candle Ceremonies Traditions at Weddings - Ideas from Readers

Having a Unity Candle Ceremony at your wedding is a beatiful way to demonstrate the joining of two families. But from a sand ceremony to a wine pouring, there are many other unity traditions for weddings. What are you planning?

Finding an Officiant for Your Wedding - How to Find the Person Who Will Marry You

Finding the right person to marry you is an important decision – after all, they will have a huge influence on the tone of the ceremony. Here are tips for finding a religious or secular person to marry you and questions to ask them.

The Wedding Processional -- Who Walks Up the Aisle When During a Wedding...

One of the grandest part of any wedding ceremony is when the bridal party makes its entrance. The air is full of anticipation, and the groom anxiously awaits his first glimpse of his bride in her wedding dress. But do you know what order your bridal party should walk in? And who escorts the mother of the bride? Here is a guide to different types...

Prince William and Catherine's Wedding Prayer

They didn't write their own vows, but Prince William and Kate still managed to make their wedding personal by writing their own wedding prayer.

Children and Weddings

Children in a wedding can be adorable and unpredictable. If you have children from a previous relationship, or young friends or family members you'd like to include in your wedding, read this guide to roles they can play, and ways to make them comfortable.

Unity Candle Ceremonies and Other Unity Ceremonies

Looking to include a unity candle ceremony or other unity tradition in your wedding? Here is a list of the many varieties of traditions out there, and how to include them in your wedding.

Wedding Programs - what to include, and do you need one?

Wedding programs are one of those little details that add that extra something to your big day. Here is information on what should be included in a wedding program, and how to decide if you should have a wedding program.

Should you have a religious wedding?

Are you an interfaith, non-practicing or partially agnostic engaged couple? If you're trying to decide whether or not to have a religious wedding, here are some considerations, and possible solutions.

Wedding Guests and Religious Customs

Are you a wedding guest worried about attending a religious ceremony? Do you not know what to expect? How will you deal with the laws of your own religion? Here's the answer to all these questions and more.

What Side of the Church Should Wedding Guests Choose?

At a church wedding, the ushers often will ask guests, "Bride's side or groom's side?" But which side is which? And why?

Unity Candle Ceremonies and Unity Traditions at Weddings - Ideas from Readers

Having a Unity Candle Ceremony at your wedding is a beatiful way to demonstrate the joining of two families. But from a sand ceremony to a wine pouring, there are many other unity traditions for weddings. What are you planning?

Second Weddings - Getting Remarried in Style

Planning to get remarried? Planning a wedding for your second marriage can be an opportunity to improve any mistakes you made the first time - including the person you married! But there are some new rules of etiquette and sticky situations to deal with. Here's a guide to everything about second weddings.

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