Too often, a honeymoon takes a backseat to all the wedding planning. But shouldnt you give it just a little more attention? After all, the wedding is for your family and friends, but the honeymoon is just for you. Its a time to relax and reflect, but most of all enjoy each other.
Here are the basic things you need to know:
Decide on a Honeymoon Budget:
You may have already decided this when planning your wedding budget. If not, sit down and do this before you decide anything else. Figure out if you have any frequent flier miles or hotel miles that can be used towards your trip. Consider putting all of the wedding expenses on a credit card
that earns frequent flier miles for your honeymoon. (Be sure to pay it off every month you dont want to start a new marriage with a ton of new debt.)
Decide When to Go and For How Long:
First, figure out how many vacation days you have accrued, and how many of them youll need before the wedding for last minute planning. (Its not uncommon for brides to take a week off, and grooms to take a couple of days.) Do you want to leave the morning after your wedding? Or, do you want to have some time after the wedding to unwind and pack when youll be more focused on it, and take your honeymoon a few days or even a few weeks later? Another option, for those who dont have a lot of vacation days, is to take a weekend mini-moon after the wedding, and then take a long second honeymoon on your first anniversary.
Decide Where to Go on Your Honeymoon
: Each of you should take a few minutes to separately write down what you envision doing on your honeymoon. Do you want somewhere warm or cold? Do you want to go someplace far away and new, or someplace close to home? Do you want a resort where there will be other honeymooners to socialize with, or someplace secluded where it will just be the two of you? Do you want to be in a city with museums, restaurants and nightlife or, do you want there to be lots of athletic activities available? Perhaps youll just want to spend a lot of time in the room! Once each of you has your list, compare. Where there are differences, see if theres one place that might have the best of both worlds.
Consider Visiting a Travel Agent:
While most people are booking travel online these days, a travel agent can be extremely helpful when planning a honeymoon. Not only will he or she have ideas about places you might not have thought of, but theyll be familiar with those details like do you need a visa? and when the rainy season is. They might also have special packages or deals to pass on to you.
Learn More about Where Youre Going:
Its never too early to get excited. As soon as youve picked a spot, buy a travel book, so you can read about all there is to do and see.
Arrange for Passports and Visas, if Necessary. Make Sure Your Drivers License is Up to Date.
These pesky little details can take time and therefore are one of the first things you should do, once you know where you are going. Ill never forget the trip where I got to the counter of the rental car agency only to be told that my drivers license had expired only days before. Luckily the person I was with could rent the car, but I would have been better off with a little forethought.